Teach Your Children

Of course it's hard to take that a rich relative simply could by the sheer power of money claim a status oneself has been struggling hard to achieve.
In this case getting the level of skill to join the skiing instructor one loves because he only takes the best. Then your cousin comes along saying, "Well, if he is the such a good instructor, my father will pay him for private instructions." (because we are rich and can afford this). Yet, my dear son, you've got the skill and the fun, something your cousin does not realise - ever...